I refuse to pay hard earned money on overpriced pasta, overdone steaks and frozen vegtables.  Rather spend some money when I can on a nice ice cream, milk shake or a sunday

Sorry Chris but you are not there yet.  It takes a lot of soul searching to understand yourself and know why you react to situations that are not good and learn from it.

The guy needs to dissapear and not think that what he did is forgotten. And there is something not right with Riahanna when she stills talks to him.  He Beat her up badly and he would probably do it again.  Not good.