and being able to laugh together :)

Well, this isn't supposed to be about me specifically, but we are in it together and we both have the same financial issues (both musicians). and I'm 26. Speaking more generally (or typing, rather), I think that if you want to have kids, you'll make it work, and if you're too old by the time you're financially ready, o...more

Definitely I am delaying marriage/children (I don't know if I'll ever afford to have kids)/buying a house, etc. because of financial difficulty. However it is unfair to say that it is "destroying love," as it is perfectly possible to love and not be married (I've been in my relationship for almost 6 years now).

I have fibromyalgia, so my sex drive is kinda low (my whole body hurts all the time). So I don't mind my partner using porn. I feel bad that I can't be a better girlfriend, but it's not really my fault. I think it helps our relationship. I don't think about what he's looking at, it doesn't matter. When we are intimate ...more