I retired to Mazatlan, Mexico 14 years ago.  I know that if I had stayed in Canada I would never have survived on my persion.  Here I live well, not going without anything.  It was the best thing I ever did.  Why try to struggle to survive on the meager pension they allow when you have choices.  Also, I save a bundle o...more

I agree with some of the posters that point out that when someone strays it is a sign that something is wrong in the marriage.  However, at any time, and often, there is always something wrong if you are looking for it.  This is a fact of life!  Life is not perfect, and if you are expecting it to be, then your expectat...

As someone who had been there, done that, my advice.  Don't do it!!! I too am with a younger man.  We have been together for 23 years.  When I met him we were both students - I a mature student.  The age difference was not a problem because we were in love and had so much in common.  We spent 18 years of our time toge...

I am the wife who's husband has been cheating on her.  What some people don't understand is that there are women out there who are not innocent victims of married men, but are predators.   These women are not to be pitied because they "happen" to fall in love with a married man, they should be despised.  I know because...

I am a size 36D and am slim.  I have found that the only tops that look good, and don't make me look fat all over, are the stretchy tops.  Blouses are out because they usually don't stretch across my breasts without adding bulk to my waist and hips.  I do however, wear blouses as sometimes jackets over my tops when it ...

VERY, VERY OFFENSIVE.  I have a much younger husband.  I did not stalk him and I resent the implication that I did.  We met as other couples meet, fell in love and married.  The fact that he was younger than me was not a deciding factor.  The deciding factor, as is should be, was who he was.  I would not have cared if ...

How long are you willing to wait for him to leave his wife?  How many lies are you willing to swollow?  I know someone who has been having an affair for five years with a married man.  She knew from the beginning that he was married and "chose" to enter into a relationship anyway.  He promised her in the beginning that...

I have been living in Mexico for almost 9 years.  For eight of them I lived in cities and communities where there were few foreigners and the internet was, to say the least, almost non-existent.  I literally never saw anyone from north of the border and had little contact with them.  Now I am living in a resort city th...

I am 50 something, newly single and loving it.  All my life I have had other people involved in every aspect of my life.  My parents, one husband with whom I had children, and another husband until recently.  How can I express how wonderful this freedom is?  I get up in the morning with joy at the knowledge that I have...